Friend, N. (2006). Lush. New York: Scholastic Press.
BOOK SUMMARY
In addition to dealing with the typical problems and concerns that arise during the early teenage years, Sam is weighed down by the fact that her father is an alcoholic, something she doesn't think anyone she knows can understand. In a strange twist of fate, she connects with a stranger who irks her, and yet understands her, in a way no one else does. As events at home escalate, Sam reaches out to her secret friend to help her sort through the complex emotions she is feeling. In the end, she discovers she might not be the only one struggling.
Impressions and opinion of the book
Many teens are faced with alcoholism and yet, the subject still seems to be somewhat taboo in middle or even YA literature. At most, we are confronted with teen drinking; rarely have I encountered a book that delves into the issues a child faces from a parent consumed with alcohol addiction. Friend broaches the topic in a relevant, yet poignant manner. She does not sugar coat the subject matter, but she does not sensationalize it, either. The emphasis is more on the emotions Sam feels due to her father's actions as opposed to focusing on her father's actions.
Friend also gives a peek into the entire family dynamic, speaking to the fact that each member is affected in a way unique to their relationship with Sam's father. The fear Sam feels at the discovery of her father's alcoholism by others is a feeling that can be relatable to anyone who thinks they are harboring family secrets. Friend does not end the novel with everything working out perfectly. There is no neat little bow to wrap it up. Still, she shows that families can work through difficulties, and friends can be more accepting and forgiving than we give them credit for.
Full-Text Review
After years of pretending she has a “normal” family, a worried teen finally confronts her father’s alcoholism. Thirteen-year-old Samantha knows her father has a drinking problem, but her parents seem oblivious. Sam’s father makes empty promises to stop drinking while her mother immerses herself in yoga classes, defending her husband as a “good man.” Although Sam carefully camouflages the situation by inviting friends over only when her father’s away, his binges are getting worse and she’s afraid he will lose control. Desperate to confide in someone other than her friends, Sam leaves notes in the library asking for advice from an older girl she doesn’t really know. When her drunken father injures her little brother and the family’s future is jeopardized, Sam must deal with anger and uncertainty as she makes some surprising discoveries about her family, her friends and herself. Sam comes across as a savvy as well as naïve teen who tells her own story with humor, honesty and hope. Realistic family drama. (Fiction. 12-15)
Kirkus (2006). [Review for the book Lush by Natasha Friend]. Retrieved from https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/natasha-friend/lush/
Library Use
Broaching topics such as alcoholism or abuse with students can be difficult. Pre and early teens are developmentally wired to be concerned with what others think about them. Creating a safe haven in which such topics can be explored is needed, but it's not always easy to find a way where one can show the students these resources are available without singling them out or making them uncomfortable. Chances are, like Sam, these are the kinds of things students will keep to themselves.
A possible way to highlight Lush and other works like it would be to create a rotating book case called "Exploring the Hard Topics." There could be a different topic for each shelf (ie: alcoholism, stress, death, college, etc.) On each shelf, there could be fiction and non-fiction books related to the topic. Every few weeks, the topics could change, and this would give students an opportunity to see what books they might relate to. Changing out the shelves would also give students a chance to check out the book later if they are concerned someone might connect them to the topic. Just knowing it is available, they could wait until the topics have changed. Perhaps there could be a place where students could even suggest other books that have helped them to deal with and better understand hard topics they are facing.






